Hari abagabo abatita ku ihame ry’uburinganire n’ubwuzuzanye bikavamo ihohoterwa

Hari abagabo abatita ku ihame ry’uburinganire n’ubwuzuzanye bikavamo ihohoterwa

Bamwe mu baturage bavuga ko uretse abumva nabi ihame ry’uburinganire n’ubwuzuzanye, hari n’abatabyitaho bikarangira bivuyemo guhohotera abo bashakanye, n’ubukene bugashinga imizi mu muryango.

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Ngendahimana uhamya ko yamaze gusobanukirwa ihamye ry’uburinganire n’ubwuzizanye, avuga ko hari icyo byafashije umuryango we.

Ati: “mbere numvaga ko umugabo atagomba kuringanira n’umugore. Ariko maze kwigishwa numva ko umugabo n’umugore turinganire, turi bamwe. Ndetse n’umuryango wacu wose turinganiye, nta kibazo.”

Avuga ko mbere nta gaciro yahaga umugore we kuko yumvaga ntaho bahuriye, akamuheza ku mutungo w’urugo, akanamukorera ihohotera ribabaza amarangamutima. Nubwo ibyo byose yabikoraga, ahamya ko yumvaga bavuga ihame ry’uburinganire ariko ntabyiteho.

Ati: ‘narabyumvaga ariko ubwo nicaga itegeko kandi ndireba!”

Ahamya ko asigaye afashanya n’umugore we, Mukankusi Josiane, muri byose kandi byazanye ituze n’amahoro mu muryango.

Ku ruhande rwe, Mukankusi avuga ko nubwo yabikorerwaga atari aziko ahohoterwa kugeza ubwo bahugurwaga na Rwanda Women’s Network.

Ati: “nahise menya ko ngomba kumvikana n’umugabo, tukabana dutekanye. Namenye ubwuzuzanye n’uburinganire, ko ngomba kuganira n’umugabo wanjye, tukuzuzanya mu bintu byose byo mu rugo. Urumva nk’umugabo atwaye amafaranga yose agiye kuyanywera arayamaze, wowe n’abana muraburaye, murabwiriwe kandi bya bindi yanjyanye mwarabishakanye. Noneho wagira icyo uvuga ati’ ibi si ibyo kwa so!’urumva ko twari mu bwigunge!”

Yongeraho ko “twari dufite ihohoterwa rikomeye; iryo ku mubiri, ku mutima, ku mutungo…ese ubwo uzi ahantu twavuye? Twavuye kure!”

Mukankusi ashimira Rwanda women’s Network yatumye yumvikana n’umugabo we kuburyo ibyo gusesagura amafaranga atakibikora. 

Avuga ko amakimbirane babagamo yatumaga babaho nabi, abana bakava mu ishuli kubera kubura ubushobozi. Mukankusi yemeza ko ibi byose byabaye amateka kuko ubu na mituweli de santé isigaye itangirwa igihe.

Kubera guhinduka k’umugabo we, Mukankusi, anavuga ko ubu asigaye acuruza mugihe kera atari abyemerewe, ndetse n’umugabo winjiraga mu rugo ameze nk’igikoko asigaye yinjirana ineza, asuhuza abo ahasanze.

 

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Hari abagabo abatita ku ihame ry’uburinganire n’ubwuzuzanye bikavamo ihohoterwa

Hari abagabo abatita ku ihame ry’uburinganire n’ubwuzuzanye bikavamo ihohoterwa

 Jul 3, 2024 - 16:04

Bamwe mu baturage bavuga ko uretse abumva nabi ihame ry’uburinganire n’ubwuzuzanye, hari n’abatabyitaho bikarangira bivuyemo guhohotera abo bashakanye, n’ubukene bugashinga imizi mu muryango.

kwamamaza

Ngendahimana uhamya ko yamaze gusobanukirwa ihamye ry’uburinganire n’ubwuzizanye, avuga ko hari icyo byafashije umuryango we.

Ati: “mbere numvaga ko umugabo atagomba kuringanira n’umugore. Ariko maze kwigishwa numva ko umugabo n’umugore turinganire, turi bamwe. Ndetse n’umuryango wacu wose turinganiye, nta kibazo.”

Avuga ko mbere nta gaciro yahaga umugore we kuko yumvaga ntaho bahuriye, akamuheza ku mutungo w’urugo, akanamukorera ihohotera ribabaza amarangamutima. Nubwo ibyo byose yabikoraga, ahamya ko yumvaga bavuga ihame ry’uburinganire ariko ntabyiteho.

Ati: ‘narabyumvaga ariko ubwo nicaga itegeko kandi ndireba!”

Ahamya ko asigaye afashanya n’umugore we, Mukankusi Josiane, muri byose kandi byazanye ituze n’amahoro mu muryango.

Ku ruhande rwe, Mukankusi avuga ko nubwo yabikorerwaga atari aziko ahohoterwa kugeza ubwo bahugurwaga na Rwanda Women’s Network.

Ati: “nahise menya ko ngomba kumvikana n’umugabo, tukabana dutekanye. Namenye ubwuzuzanye n’uburinganire, ko ngomba kuganira n’umugabo wanjye, tukuzuzanya mu bintu byose byo mu rugo. Urumva nk’umugabo atwaye amafaranga yose agiye kuyanywera arayamaze, wowe n’abana muraburaye, murabwiriwe kandi bya bindi yanjyanye mwarabishakanye. Noneho wagira icyo uvuga ati’ ibi si ibyo kwa so!’urumva ko twari mu bwigunge!”

Yongeraho ko “twari dufite ihohoterwa rikomeye; iryo ku mubiri, ku mutima, ku mutungo…ese ubwo uzi ahantu twavuye? Twavuye kure!”

Mukankusi ashimira Rwanda women’s Network yatumye yumvikana n’umugabo we kuburyo ibyo gusesagura amafaranga atakibikora. 

Avuga ko amakimbirane babagamo yatumaga babaho nabi, abana bakava mu ishuli kubera kubura ubushobozi. Mukankusi yemeza ko ibi byose byabaye amateka kuko ubu na mituweli de santé isigaye itangirwa igihe.

Kubera guhinduka k’umugabo we, Mukankusi, anavuga ko ubu asigaye acuruza mugihe kera atari abyemerewe, ndetse n’umugabo winjiraga mu rugo ameze nk’igikoko asigaye yinjirana ineza, asuhuza abo ahasanze.

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